K&F Concept Aluminum Heavy Duty Stand 7.5Ft/2.3m/90.55" Adjustable Lighting Tripod Stand for Reflectors, Softboxes, Photo Studio Speedlight, Max Load 8.8lbs/4KG

SKU: KF34.009V1

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yes, however for added stability you should add counter weight at the bottom. 
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You would need a female ¼” adaptor to screw onto this male ¼” 
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I'm guessing here but I'd say its about 10lbs with the legs spread wide. 
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